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    <title>Peradize &amp; Chaos</title>
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    <updated>2009-07-30T14:55:26Z</updated> 
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    <subtitle>Its all in your mind...and myne</subtitle>  
    
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        <title>For My First Son</title>   
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          I&#39;ve been transcribing my first journal and decided to share these: I was a child that believed, the woman I was, loved a young man, because he put a song in my heart. But then he put a tear in my eye when he said, I don’t believe the child is mi...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>It&#39;s Finally Over....</title>   
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        <published>2009-07-23T09:51:52Z</published>
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         Can&#39;t sleep, may as well write. So much has happened since I last posted. I ended a very long-term relationship, I began a new journey with a new love. I&#39;m healing, I&#39;m growing. I feel great and I&#39;m exhausted, both physically and emotionally. But ...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>My 1st Son</title>   
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        <published>2009-06-11T15:29:36Z</published>
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         I was 16. I was too young and I was scared. You were born the afternoon of June 11, 1983 at Michael Reese Hospital in Chicago. I didn&#39;t know I was in labor, I was in for a doctor&#39;s appointment. You were a week late. Seems the norm my boys, your br...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Love isn&#39;t an act...a poem share</title>   
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        <published>2009-06-09T15:53:19Z</published>
        <updated>2009-06-13T12:35:58Z</updated>
    
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          Love isn&#39;t an act, its a whole life.   its staying with her now because   she needs you; its knowing you   and she will still care about each other when   sex and daydreams, fights and futures -   when all that&#39;s on the shelf and done with.   Lov...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Our Story, Pt 2</title>   
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        <published>2009-04-30T22:02:36Z</published>
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           And she steps out of the door to hug me telling me she was my mother. At first I was shocked beyond belief. Who would have thought that she would be in the same place after all of those years? She went to hug me and at first I froze.  I wasn’t e...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Our Story, A Little of Both Sides...</title>   
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        <published>2009-04-22T18:14:41Z</published>
        <updated>2009-06-13T12:41:41Z</updated>
    
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          This is a repost for some of my old friends and a brand new story for my new ones. My Side:   My sister and I, we didn’t grow up together but we are as close or closer even, than if we had. We are sometimes as different as night and day, and at o...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>More than a Woman - Music Player Meme</title>   
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        <published>2008-12-17T15:57:28Z</published>
        <updated>2008-12-18T21:09:03Z</updated>
    
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          1. Put your music player on shuffle. 2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer. 3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS! 4. Tag friends who might enjoy doing the game as well as the person you got ...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>This is a Test</title>   
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        <published>2008-10-07T15:27:00Z</published>
        <updated>2009-04-03T22:27:08Z</updated>
    
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         My daughter&#39;s art teacher gave them this assignment the first week of school and I think its a great idea for breaking the ice and gaining insight in to yourself and others. Plus, dude has a sense of humor...ride with me on this test, I won&#39;t have...   <p style="clear:both;">    
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        <title>Featured Question: Easier Said Than Done</title>   
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        <published>2008-09-11T15:58:15Z</published>
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          What’s a simple thing you could do to save money, but are unwilling (or unable) to put to practice? Sponsored by Microsoft Small Business.    Oh that&#39;s easy, stop eating out...      <p style="clear:both;"> 
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    <entry>
        <title>The Day After</title>   
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        <published>2008-09-01T19:48:37Z</published>
        <updated>2008-12-18T20:54:45Z</updated>
    
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   Yesterday was my birthday. I turned 42. No, I am not one that cares if anybody knows how old I am. I don&#39;t look it, neither do I act my age. This I give to my kids and my family genes.  Today is a relaxing day so far, my daughter needed to get her...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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